Friendships are one of the few things in life that can bring indescribable joy in our lives, but even the closest ones can sometimes cross lines, leaving you feeling drained or overwhelmed at some point. Setting clear boundaries when it comes to any relationship doesn’t mean you’re pushing people away; it’s simply about protecting your time, and prioritizing your well-being. Here are some surefire signs you need to set solid boundaries.
1. They Don’t Respect Your Time
If they cancel plans at the last minute, expect you to drop everything for them, and even guilt-trip you for not making enough time for them, then It’s time to set boundaries with them.
2. You’re Always Saying ‘Yes’
Whether it’s to do certain favours or plans, you find yourself saying ‘yes’ way more often than you should, out of guilt or fear of conflict with your friends. Your friendship should be based on understanding and honesty.
3. You’re Walking on Eggshells
If you feel like you can’t be honest or express yourself freely without upsetting them, it might be time to draw a line. A true friendship should make you feel at ease and comfortable being yourself. If you're second-guessing your words or actions to avoid conflict, it’s a sign that boundaries need to be set.
4. Their Problems Become Your Problems
Empathy is essential in any relationship and it's okay to provide support when needed, but if you feel like you’re carrying their emotional baggage and you're overwhlemed by their problems then this is an unhealthy friendship.
5. Your Needs Are Always Neglected
If the friendship feels one-sided and your needs are consistently overlooked, it’s time to speak your mind. Your needs are as important as theirs, and should'nt be compromised for the sake of keeping the friendship.
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