Every person thinks they know it all when they get into a relationship, maybe it’s due to the fact of being surrounded by numerous couples regardless of the nature of their relationships, or from watching too many romance movies that are too good to be true.
But let’s get straight to the facts, everyone has flaws, and no relationship is perfect. We all have habits or behaviors that might not be ideal and that's okay. The key in making it work is to start normalizing the other side of a relationship like the awkward moments, the tough conversations, and the occasional bad days. It’s about embracing the messiness and differences that make you stronger as a couple. Here are things we need to normalize in a relationship.
The Need for Personal Space
Don't be afraid to ask your partner for some alone time, because it is completely fine to want to have some time on your own. Just because you are a couple doesn't mean you have to do everything together. Give each other the space to do certain activities separately without the need to always be with your partner. This will help you cherish your quality time together and strengthen your relationship.
Experiencing Bad Days
Remember, having bad days is normal and essential in strengthening the bond. With every fight and disagreement you have with your partner, you two get closer and get to know each other on a much deeper level. You love each other more throughout the process, and this is why relationships can be so complex yet undeniably beautiful.
Having Different Interests
It’s perfectly okay for couples to have different hobbies and interests. You don’t need to do everything together or pressure your partner to join in on activities they’re not interested in and you don't have to pretend to like their interests either. Focus on enjoying the things you both love together and connecting through them.
Setting Boundaries with Each Other
Setting healthy boundaries is important for your overall mental health, this also applies to your significant other. Setting boundaries isn’t about pushing your partner away nor about putting up walls between you two, it’s about creating a space where both of you can thrive without overstepping each other’s limits.
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