5 Signs That Show They're Not into You

Going on dates can be full of romance and excitement especially if the other party has the same feelings that you have for them, but sometimes things do not go the way you want. Then we step into this confusing phase of having to guess everything they do, wondering whether they are into you or not. In this article, we'll explore some tell-tale signs that they may not be into you.

 So, if any of the things we’ll tell you here rings a bell, you are better off without that person and you deserve someone way better.

 

 

1. Talking about themselves too much

Usually, when going out on dates, the person you are with would love to know more about you, and what you love and hate. However, that is not always the case because some would just talk about themselves way too much, never asking about your interests which is a total turn-off.

 

2. Never initiating plans

You are the one who is constantly making plans and suggesting where to go and when, while the other party is not putting any effort in planning the outings let alone committing to them, while trying to find excuses to cancel plans with you.

 

3. Showing little to no affection

Even if their love language is different from yours, showing affection is vital as it shows that two people are truly fond of each other. If the person you are seeing is not showing any form of affection or romance towards you, then most probably they don't like you entirely.

 

4. Taking too long to respond

Let us be honest with ourselves, as soon as we develop a crush or catch feelings towards someone we text and call them back as soon as we can. Taking way too long to reply back, leaving huge time gaps between each reply and kind of ghosting you for hours, even days, are all signs they are not really into you

 

5. Never putting a label on it

After a good couple of dates, one has to figure out their relationship status with the other party but whenever you start asking questions like what are we or are we official, and you get vague responses like “let’s keep it casual” or “I am not looking for anything serious” or even simply ignoring your questions.